no surprises guaranteed

 i hope you read this!
  I wanted to make this because I felt like it was important to just express that safety should always come first and doing this is really hard because it’s hard to know who safe and who’s not and especially for us providers. Women are the most vulnerable in this situation when it comes to meeting new connections and it’s also can be unsettling for men as well because I’ve heard some pretty gnarly stories before and I’ve heard some pretty unpleasant stories so I just wanted to make sure that we are all on the same page that everything I do is to make everyone uncomfortable and I love verifying myself through FaceTime or through some kind of video chat so that way I know who I’m seeing and talking to and can feel mutually comfortable and make each other feel excited about seeing each other and I really feel like doing this creates a safe space because sometimes just basic screening is a little bit nerve-racking and then you don’t know especially for me because I meet so many unique connections every day or every week and I like to know who I’m meeting! But yes, please be open. I’m very flexible and open myself and I ask for the same in return and of course I respect people’s privacy and livelihoods and families and I try to keep a double lifestyle separate myself. I have a very separate lifestyle from my home life and my fun life. I feel like balancing those two acts are highly important so I respect others that do that as well so I am excited to be on the same page and I’m excited to have some fun and have everyone on the same page that reaches out to me!